Everyone is shy when they are young, some people shy because they think they are not good enough, so they are not confident, they will low their heads before others. We call this emotion self-abasement, most people suffer such emotion, we need to conquer it. For me, I was not confident before, I always think that other guys do every thing better than me, until someday, I watch a book. The book says how to conquer self-abasement, I learn that the reason why people feel not confident, it is because they haven’t found their advantages. The book tells that everyone is good at something, we are wrong to compare other people’s advantages with our disadvantages. After I read the book, I understand why I not confident, I should never compare with others, I also have my merit, I should be proud of myself. Let’s raise our heads and be confident.

當我們年輕的時候，每個人都有害羞的時候，一些人害羞是因為他們覺得自己不夠好，所以他們不夠自信，會在別人面前低下頭。我們把這類情感稱為自卑，大部分人都有這種情緒，我們需要克服。對于我來說，我以前也不自信，總是覺得別人做什么都比我好，直到有一天，我看了一本書。這本書說的是如何克服自卑，我知道了人們為什么不自信，那是因為他們還沒有發現自己的優點。書上說每個人都有擅長的東西，我們錯在將我們的短處拿去比別人的長處。看了這本書后，我懂得了自己自卑的原因，我不應該和別人比，我也有閃光點，應該為自己自豪。讓我們抬起頭和自信起來吧。